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no matter what color you are!
Loving Yourself Before Allowing Love In Your Life
After a separation and divorce, Author and Romance Consultant, Sylvia Hubbard, felt she must heal from the emotional pain and failure that she felt. Her fear of becoming one of those angry black women scared her because she had been one before and she had been miserable.
Writing had always been a passion and addiction of hers and it brought her great relief when she wrote fiction because she was a suspense romance/sensual noir author already. Sylvia decided to use her gift to relieve the stress in her heart over leaving her marriage in order to be happy and learn how to love herself again in order to let love back in her life without being afraid of getting hurt.
In order to “find herself” and begin the loving process, she started a blog called, How To Love A Black Woman, more for a guide book for herself and when friends and family began to come and comment, it was enjoyable to hear that she alone in her feelings of issues in relationships and problems that arise between people that simple communications could have worked out. Through her healing process, she found great relationship books and did reviews on those.
Soon men started emailing her offline and asking for a “female opinion” on their problems and on different things women do. Instead of answering them privately, she answered them on the blog and offline she started giving couples advice on creative intimacy and romantic ideas.
Today, How to Love A Black Woman blog has become what she wanted it to become – A guidebook on what it takes to love her and then she has friends join in giving their take and posting their prose, as well.
“I wanted to create a way for people to talk about what we don’t talk about – communication and intimacy. These are important to me and it should be important to many people especially in the African American Community, that refuses to acknowledge that this is an important part of a relationship,” Sylvia says.
Whether someone does find her to marry, she knows that in order to love her and love who she is, they are going to have to read her blog and she hopes that a deeper understanding of the complex woman comes to them and they can love her even more.
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How Do You Love A Black Woman?
E-book Available for download
Price: $2.99
Release: July 2007